Rolling out to Renaissance Spa and Salon

1 Sep

My mission this week was to use SpaFinder to book an appointment at a local spa. I was given gift certificates to put toward the cost of the services. SpaFinder.com is a nifty website because, instead of buying someone a gift certificate to a certain salon or spa in the area, you can buy a Spa Finder gift card instead and it’s good toward ALL participating local salons and spas. I booked an appointment for Spa Manicures at Renaissance Salon and Spa (10440 Broadway Extension). Renaissance is located in a cozy two-story cottage. Walking in makes on instantly feel at home. While they are currently remodeling due to the heavy damage inflicted by the recent hailstorm, it is still a luxurious little spot.

Dolores and Margo were our nail techs. Patrice and I had a fabulous time talking to them and getting to know them. I got my nails painted a gorgeous baby blue color (I tend to stay away from traditional nail colors like red or purple), and I couldn’t be more pleased with how they turned out.

We had a wonderful time going, and we feel totally pampered. Thanks, Chevy!

If you follow me on the site, or friend Gotta Love Chevy OK on Facebook, or follow them on Twitter, you’ll see that there are some really amazing giveaways to enter. So please, visit those links and become a friend/follower.

FTC Disclosure: The Gotta Love Chevy Blogger Promotion is being sponsored by the Oklahoma Chevy Team Dealers. Three women bloggers (including me) have been provided a Chevy Malibu vehicle to test drive for four weeks. The program includes weekly fun activities or projects for us to complete. Bloggers been provided gift cards in which to complete these assignments.

New Chevy!

28 Aug

Thursday, the dealership put me in a new Chevy to give me a chance to drive the top-of-the-line model. I didn’t think the car could get much nicer, but it did. I am now driving the 2011 Chevy Malibu LTZ model and I am in love. The seats are even more comfortable, the driver’s side is roomier, and the temperature gauges are even more precise. It has even smoother acceleration and it shifts gears without any hiccups, so this car really gets up and goes. I’ve decided to name the car Little Zippy. Check out a few pictures of my new baby:

Read more about the 2011 Chevy Malibu HERE. If you have any interest in this car, this is a great time to take it for a test drive. Why? Oklahoma City area Chevy dealers are offering a no-strings-attached $50 gift certificate to Nonna’s in Bricktown just for test driving. So, get over to one of your local dealers and try one out today.

If you follow me on the site, or friend Gotta Love Chevy OK on Facebook, or follow them on Twitter, you’ll see that there are some really amazing giveaways to enter. So please, visit those links and become a friend/follower.

FTC Disclosure: The Gotta Love Chevy Blogger Promotion is being sponsored by the Oklahoma Chevy Team Dealers. Three women bloggers (including me) have been provided a Chevy Malibu vehicle to test drive for four weeks. The program includes weekly fun activities or projects for us to complete. Bloggers been provided gift cards in which to complete these assignments.

It’s a Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood

25 Aug

Sometimes, I write vignettes about the weather:

It is cool in the air tonight. It feels like autumn crispness, but that is a betrayal. It will return to staggering heat soon enough. We will forget how we felt today and how it seemed like the year was coming to an end even though it was still August. Today, we were reminded of fireplaces, hot mugs of tea, extra blankets on the bed, early sunsets, and tall boots capped with slushy ice. Today was a day with not enough fire and not enough ice – a confounding middle that is filled  simultaneously with promises and regrets.

“September’s coming soon. I’m pining for the moon. And what if there were two, side by side in orbit around the fairest sun? That bright, tight forever drum could not describe nightswimming.” – Nightswimming, R.E.M.

Things to See

23 Aug

Why is work so boring? I mean, ideally, you should be working, but you’re not. You’re on Reddit, or Jezebel, or Refinery29, or cruising the Missed Connections on Craigslist, or maybe you’re on my blog (hi!). Whatever you’re doing it’s not work, and for some reason, I feel like encouraging your procrastination by providing my top favorite videos this week. This is what I’m watching and sharing on Facebook. While some of them are Not Safe For Work, make sure you check them out when you get home because they are awesome. I hope you enjoy!

Bryce Dallas Howard stars in Alex Prager’s short film “Despair.” The clothes are very Mad Men, and the film is bittersweet and beautifully shot:

This is my favorite right now. I’ve watched it a dozen times, and it hasn’t yet failed to entertain me:

Do you like hot guys? Do you like ice cream? Hotosexual bad boy Cazwell‘s new video Ice Cream Truck combines the two in a very NSFW and very tasty music video:

This video is hilarious and quirky and totallly NSFW. It cracked me up, but it’s a little dirty. A sense of humor is a definite prerequisite to viewing.

My favorite model, Coca Rocha, got married to James Conran recently and the video for the wedding is gorgeous (and envy-inspiring):

Wildfox Couture’s video It’s Witchcraft, featuring their Fall 2010 fashions is amazing. My BF, Lexi, introduced it to me, and though there were quite a few “Uh, that girl looks so amazing, screw her!” moments, overall we were completely infatuated.

This is a video that I have watched over and over. I showed it to all of my friends. I memorized the song. I am in love with every single second of it. How much better could it be? It’s Shirley Manson and Elijah Wood in an Oliver Peoples video. Super swank.

Had your fill? If not, check back next week for another round up of videos that I absolutely love.

Malibu and Me

21 Aug

I am the proud new (temporary) owner of a 2011 Chevy Malibu! How did this come to be? Well, it’s kind of a long story, but I’ll give you the essentials. A blogger who had participated in a promotional event for Houston Area Chevy Dealers contacted me after she stumbled across my blog. Apparently, Oklahoma City Area Chevy Dealers were looking for bloggers to participate in their Gotta Love Chevy event. What this meant for me: I’d get to drive a brand new 2011 Chevy Malibu for one month and I would blog about it and make videos (is this called “vlogging”? What a horrible word).

It should have been a foregone conclusion that my answer to their question (“would you like to participate?”) would be a resounding, “Heck yes!” See, I’m the odd duck in this region of bloggers participating in the Gotta Love Chevy event. Why? Because, I don’t have a car! My beloved Mercedes Benz (Benzy, R.I.P.) died on me back in March and I have been a pathetic bummer-of-rides ever since. I have been saving up for a new car, but I’ve managed pretty well without one – even though the fact that I don’t have a car makes me feel like a 20-something year old loser.

So, when I got the opportunity to drive a car, a brand new one at that, I jumped at the chance. That means, for the next month you’ll see the occasional post from me talking about this awesome vehicle, and about the “missions” that Chevy has sent me on. Before you mistake my participation for an act of desperation, let me assure you: I really do like this car and think it’s an amazing vehicle. I stand behind my opinions. Simple opportunism, this is not.

Now, I’m supposed to be blogging twice a week, so there may be two posts about the Malibu this weekend because I ran into some technical difficulties and could not post earlier this week. I hope you don’t feel inundated. I am going to try to make this as fun and user-friendly for my readers as possible.

What a beaut:

What’s in it for you:

If you follow me on the site, or friend Gotta Love Chevy OK on Facebook, or follow them on Twitter, you’ll see that there are some really amazing giveaways to enter. So please, visit those links and become a friend/follower.

Let me just tell you a little about this car:

PROS
- It has a remote start feature that allows you to start your car remotely (like from inside your house!). The doors must be locked first, and the car will run for 10 minutes before automatically shutting off. This is a great feature in the hot summer or frigid winter, as the car can adjust temperatures to either cool off or heat up while you wait. I am in love with this feature and use constantly to impress friends and confuse people standing near my car in parking lots.
- It gets 33 mpg on the highway.
- The version I have has tires that are filled with nitrogen (random, I know, but still awesome!).
- It has the biggest trunk I’ve ever seen on a sedan.
- It is quiet and fast and smooth to drive.
- It came equipped with Onstar, Sirius XM Satellite Radio, and Bluetooth (I’m so spoiled by these features already).
- It is an affordable family car that feels like a sports car/luxury car hybrid.

CONS
- The cupholders are a little wonky. You can really only fit one large cup inside of them. The salesman at the dealership was trying to show me how to pull the tray up to give it more room, but neither of us figured it out very well. This could simply be a case of User Error, though.
- I am nearly 6 feet tall, and I have to say the driver’s side is a little cramped. The passenger seat and the backseat are ginormous and roomy. However, I am still in the process of finding my optimal comfort level when it comes to seat/steering wheel adjustments, so this CON may change to a PRO once I get the hang of it. However, I have been messing with it all week and still feel a little cramped.

That’s all for now. I’ll be posting my grocery shopping mission later, so check back to see how it went!

FTC Disclosure: The Gotta Love Chevy Blogger Promotion is being sponsored by the Oklahoma Chevy Team Dealers. Three women bloggers (including me) have been provided a Chevy Malibu vehicle to test drive for four weeks. The program includes weekly fun activities or projects for us to complete. Bloggers been provided gift cards in which to complete these assignments.

Tags: , ,

Lea T and the Mystery of Gender Identity

12 Aug

Do you recall the episode of House entitled “Skin Deep”? In it, and I’m going to have to spoil it for you if you’ve never seen it, a teenage supermodel faces complications that appear to stem from heroin withdrawal. After a typically dramatic trial-and-error treatment attempt, Dr. House discovers the cause of the model’s problems: pseudohermaphroditism. It turns out she has both male and female genitalia, however her male genitalia (testes) are located inside her body and have developed a tumor. House takes a lot of its cases from mainstream medical phenomena. At the time of the episode, studies had been released that suggested that a significant (stats speak here, meaning p = .05) percentage of the world’s supermodels were genetic anomalies due to pseudohermaphroditism (also known as androgen insensitivity syndrome, or AIS).

Jena Pincott wrote an article on her blog entitled When the Perfect Woman is Genetically Male. She sums up the cause of the syndrome very well:

This gorgeous college student had complete androgen insensitivity syndrome. Women with this condition — approximately 1 in 20,000 — tend to be exceptionally tall and striking in appearance. AIS is caused by a recessive variant of the gene that codes for Androgen Receptor. Because the body is insensitive to the androgen testosterone, the usual male features — penis, testes, scrotum, etc. — are unable to develop. The default phenotype is female, so people with AIS have a vagina or “vaginal pouch” (although most AIS women require surgical expansion). If a woman with AIS were to get a blood test, her testosterone levels would be as high as any man’s, but her body can’t process the hormone. That’s why women with complete AIS are so feminine — arguably more so than other women. (Some people with AIS have only partial androgen insensitivity. Considered intersex, or hermaphrodites, they fall all along the spectrum between typically male and female and have a micropenis. Naturally, there’s much controversy about gender assignment at birth and estrogen or testosterone injections at puberty.)

In Jared Diamond’s book, “Why is Sex Fun?” he describes these women as such: “[A] pseudohermaphrodite looks like a normal woman. Indeed ‘she’ conforms to the male ideal of female pulchritude even more closely than does the average woman” (page 43). It makes sense that supermodels have a higher percentage of this syndrome than the rest of the population. They are supposed to represent an ideal, and pseudohermaphroditism actually causes women to conform more to this ideal.

To put it more succinctly, “The former type looks like a normal woman. Indeed, she often conforms to the male ideal of feminine beauty even more than the average woman does because her breasts tend to be well developed and her legs long and graceful. Her complexion is usually flawless and she tends to have the added height of a man. Hence, cases have turned up repeatedly among female fashion models.” (Turning a Man, Discover Magazine).

It’s almost counterintuitive to think that a woman with male characteristics could more closely approximate the “male ideal” of how a woman should look. I guess it really is a man’s world.

This brings me to the topic of Lea T (Seriously NSFW LINK!). Lea T is the world’s first openly transsexual model, and she is landing big modeling campaigns. Lea T does not suffer from pseudohermaphroditism (or AIS). She was born male, and has been taking hormones to become a woman, but has yet to undergo gender-reassignment surgery. She is beautiful and striking, and according to The Guardian, lonely.


(Lea T is the second from the right).

What ties this together for me is the thought that these women with the look that the fashion industry wants – that designers want in their clothes – are not fully women (I’m only talking in the biological sense). This concept is rather fascinating to me. I think Lea T is absolutely amazing and incredibly brave. I am glad that she has been embraced by the industry. This passage in The Guardian article really struck a chord with me, “Despite all this, she says, the ‘war in her head’ has been worth fighting. ‘The choice,’ she said in an interview in Italian Vanity Fair,’is between being unhappy forever or trying to be happy.’” I understand what she means. In this world, you do what you can to try to be happy, even in the face of insurmountable odds, societal scorn, familial dissonance, and criticism.

Does it bother me that the Ideal being marketed by mainstream fashion more accurately represents masculine traits than feminine ones? Yes, but there is a lot about the fashion industry that bothers me (like it’s inherent racism, it’s treatment toward the overweight, it’s out-of-touch snobbery, it’s refusal to change the skinniness-is-next-to-godliness mentality). There is so much corruption and backwards thinking in the fashion industry that it’s hard to know where to begin; which battle to fight. I am sure it raises the ire of some women when they realize that some of the supermodels strutting down the runway are genetically gifted (or cursed??) with AIS, or who are openly transsexual (and therefore have the masculine advantage of height, faster metabolism, etc.). But, let’s not decry these women. Let’s not demand more “real women” representation. They are real women. This is a battle I’m willing to fight, and I’m going out on a limb here when I say that I firmly believe that gender is a mental attitude more than a biological assignment. I also believe that sexuality is fluid, and that when Nature battles Nurture in a fight to the death, that Nurture is going to have the slightest edge.

If you were raised a woman, or if you identify yourself as a woman, I’m saying that’s all the criteria I need to believe you are a woman. I know that many would disagree with me. “Having a penis means you’re male, having a vagina means you’re female!” they might say. But what of those born with both sets (hermaphroditism), or when part of their genitalia is internal (pseudohermaphroditism)? What if you’re a guy with micropenis? Or a woman with an over-sized clitoris? Do these deviations from the norm speak to your gender identity? What if you were born one gender and desperately want to switch to another so that you can be at peace with yourself for the first time? What if your doctor missed the telltale signs at your birth and your parents unwittingly raised you as a female, even though you had male genitalia, like the main character in Middlesex? What if you’re someone like Gemma Ward that has something that’s nearly the opposite of AIS called trisomy? What if you’re like Hedwig and your sex change operation got botched, and all you’re left with is an angry inch? What are you then? A male or a female?

See, not such a black-and-white issue. That’s why I think it’s a personal matter. It’s up to you to define your own gender and sexuality. As for Lea T, I am excited that she’s around. Any form of diversity in the fashion world is important to me. Lea has been quoted as saying, “I agreed to pose in the name of all my transsexual friends.” Instead of being held up as an industry poster child for the unusual, she has become a symbol – a brave face  representing the transsexual multitudes.

Why didn’t Plaza District win more categories?

11 Aug

If you’re a regular reader of this blog, you know that I am a HUGE fan of a new arts/shopping district in my community called the Plaza District. I’ve conducted my street style photo shoots there. I regularly take new people to the district and foist its awesomeness upon them. LIVE on the Plaza is an event I (nearly) always attend. I’ve written a defense of Warpaint Clothing when there was controversy surrounding two images on their shirts.

The Plaza District was a commercial area that formed in the 1920′s because it was located at the end of a trolley line and had a lot of foot traffic. It was a viable community until the 1960′s when it started a slow decline. It was only in the past 10 years that residents and visioneers started a coordinated effort to revive the area. Since this effort, the Plaza District has undergone a remarkable transformation. I consider it one of the city’s best shopping areas, and I love that it’s thriving.

This brings me to the question: Why was the Plaza District screwed out of the Oklahoma Gazette’s “Best of OKC” results? For those of you not local to the area, the Oklahoma Gazette holds an annual “Best of” event. Readers get to nominate and then vote on the best businesses in Oklahoma City in categories ranging from “Best Place to Spot a Flaming Lip” to “Best Breakfast.” Plaza District, and its businesses were nominated in 16 categories. That is quite a lot of categories for one district to accrue. I thought for sure they’d sweep the competition.

What did they win? Lyric Theater won for Best Theater or Dance Company, and Velvet Monkey won for Best Hair Salon (this actually goes out to all of the Velvet Monkey locations, of which there are a few – so this one wasn’t even Plaza specific). Really?

We’re talking about a place that has utterly transformed in the last two years; a place with some of the best businesses in the city. Not only is there great shopping in the Plaza District, but there is a stellar community there too. Don’t you want to be a part of a place that consistently goes above and beyond to help its neighbors, to beautify its city, and to put green principles into action? I don’t know of any single local group that works harder than those involved with the Plaza District. The Plaza District isn’t a huge, money-grubbing organization. They have a big picture in place that considers all the angles, including philanthropy and community betterment.

I think it’s a damn shame that they didn’t win more categories. My opinion is very one-sided, I’ll admit, but I feel like people that don’t really know much about the city were overwhelmingly represented in the Gazette vote. Places like THE MALL should not be winning these categories. For real.

It’s not really about the winning so much as it is about the (very deserved) recognition that could be brought to this little pocket of art and culture in the heart of the city. “Best of OKC” helps boost business in the metro area, and I feel like a lot more attention should have been paid to the Plaza District. If you read the list of who won, it’s an overrall disappointment.

It’s like everyone just agreed that the places that won aren’t really the best OKC has to offer, they just happen to be bigger businesses with more advertising power than the little guy. I am sorely disappointed with a good 70% of the “winners.” I am more than disappointed that places like Collected Thread, Warpaint Clothing and DNA Galleries didn’t get the recognition they deserved.

It’s now my personal mission to get the word out about the Plaza District.

Next year, guys, we’re taking over.